What qualities should be prioritized when choosing a spouse according to Islamic teachings?

Answered by Mufti Muhammad Tariq

In Islam, while wealth, beauty, and lineage may be naturally considered, paramount importance is placed upon religious commitment (*Deen*) and righteous character (*Akhlaq*). The guidance from authentic Islamic sources is as follows: 1. **Prioritizing Deen and Character:** * **Sahih al-Bukhari 5090 / Sahih Bukhari Hadees 5090** (also in **Sahih Muslim 1466 / Sahih Muslim Hadees 1466**): The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) stated: > *"A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman; otherwise, you will be a loser."* 2. **The Value of a Righteous Spouse:** * **Sahih Muslim 1467 / Sahih Muslim Hadees 1467**: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: > *"The whole world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of the world is the pious woman."* 3. **Modesty and Obedience to Allah:** * **Surah An-Nisa 4:34 / Surah An-Nisa Ayat 34**: The Quran describes the qualities of ideal spouses: > *"So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard."* Therefore, when seeking a spouse, look primarily for one who observes her obligations to Allah, upholds modesty, possesses good manners, and will support you in living a righteous life.